Becoming a Disciple Through Scripture
I sat in front of a sorority woman, determined to inspire her to lead a bible study in her chapter. I pulled out the story of the paralytic man. We read the story, observed it, and began to interpret what it would have meant to the original hearers.
Teary-eyed, she said, “I need to stop sleeping with my boyfriend.”
I scanned the passage. I reread it. I had prepared multiple questions about the text that would help us to see that Jesus chose to heal the paralytic man because of the four men’s faith and that he had the authority to heal the body to forgive sins. My questions were carefully crafted to lead us into the application that our faith could heal our friends and we could use a bible study to bring people to Jesus' feet.
Discipleship: Learning to Follow
God is also inviting us on a wild adventure that will transform us if we follow him.
I grew up in the church. I knew all about God, attended the right events, and could answer all the bible questions correctly. At sixteen, I realized that there was something different between my Christian friends and me. When I asked, a friend hypothesized that I needed to “give my life to Christ.” I copied her in saying a prayer. But nothing happened.
My life was the same. I still faked religion. I gave an hour on Sunday to attend a Bible Study. But the rest of my life looked exactly the same.
Invitation To Adversity
A negative comment will leave me crying for days. A person doubting me will send me into a spiral of doubt and confusion. My fear of criticism often keeps me from following my dreams.
And yet, Jesus invites all who follow him into adversity.
As Levi sat down with Jesus, the teachers of the Law and the Pharisees began to question Jesus’ choice to eat with Tax collectors. I always marvel at this part of the story, because if someone doubted my ability to sit with Jesus, I would believe them.
What If He Meant Me?
He sat in a hot, dusty booth, watching the ships come in. Dutifully, he tallied up the taxes that he would send to the Romans.
His own community despised him because of his job. He skimmed some off the top, but how could he not? He had to make a living. But for his trouble, he was labeled as a sinner, lumped together with prostitutes.
He noticed a broad band of people following a man. What an odd sight. It must be one of those religious teachers, he thought. He ignored their presence, knowing he wouldn’t be included.
Then the Rabbi looked at him and said, “Follow me.”
Everyday Adventure
Every day, after daycare, my daughter and I walk the dog. The monotony of the activity became a chore, which one day my daughter refused to participate.
In a rare moment of genius, I asked her if she wanted to go on an adventure. She sang yes. We grabbed the leash and walked down the street, looking for squirrels. In our neighborhood, we regularly see deer, foxes, turkeys, owls, and even the odd hawk. Our neighborhood is full of animals and yet, intentionally looking for the most common of animals - a squirrel - transformed our walk into a magical adventure.
Jesus is Not Your BFF
I am a best friend gal. I love my best friends—my tribe of women! One of the many reasons I loved being in a sorority and on sports teams is that they gave me more time to hang out with my best friends. (And yes, I have plural best friends.)
For me, being a best friend means I will always have your back and I will love you no matter what. I will be there for you through anything, even if that means picking you up at a random dumpster after a night full of regrets. And my friends would do the same for me. My best friends inspire me, encourage me, challenge me, and make me a better person. I feel like I can tell them anything. To me, being best friends is the best!
But Jesus is not my best friend.
Don’t Be a Flake
“The kindest thing you can ever say is no.”
The first time I heard that, I laughed. I hate saying no.
So instead I say yes to everything. But when I say yes to everything, my insincere "yes" robs me of integrity. Let me explain.
Part of a Larger Story
Like a good series, the individual episodes of our lives weave together into a larger story. Writers of good television shows know where the show is going. Every episode builds towards a common story line. When a writer doesn’t have a clear road map of the where the story is going, episodes stick out because it appears that they are not building towards a common goal.